Category: Women’s Stories

  • Saint Ursula and Her Maidens. Artist: Niccolò di Pietro Date: ca. 1410

    St. Ursula, St. Hildegard’s favorite saint.

    In 1106, during St. Hildegard’s childhood, St. Ursula’s relics were discovered and they caused quite a stir. And so St. Ursula most likely became one of St. Hildegard’s favorites. Barbara Newman in Sister of Wisdom adds that, “Of all the saints in the calendar, none appealed to Hildegard more than the legendary Ursula, who supposedly led a troupe of eleven thousand virgins to martyrdom at Cologne…Ursula, too, became for her a figure of Virginitas, a type of the church longing for her bridegroom…”

    O EcclesiaSequence for St. Ursula and Companions by Hildegard of Bingen
    1a. O Church!
    Like sapphire are your eyes,
    Mt. Bethel are your ears,
    your nose a mount of myrrh and frankincense,
    your mouth the sound of many waters.

    1b. In true faith’s vision
    did Ursula with God’s Son fall in love—
    a husband with the world did she abandon,
    to gaze instead upon the sun
    and call upon the Fairest Youth to say:

    2a. “With deep desire have I desired to come to you,
    to sit with you at heaven’s marriage feast—
    I’m racing by a different way to you,
    like a sapphire cloud that races ‘cross the clearest sky.”

    3a. When Ursula had made this declaration,
    report of it went out through all the people.

    3b. And they declared, “The innocence of girlish ignorance
    knows not of what it speaks.”

    4a. And they began in concert to
    make fun of her—
    until the fiery weight
    fell on her shoulders.

    4b. For then they recognized
    that such contempt for the world is as Mt. Bethel.

    5. They also recognized
    the sweetest secent of myrrh and frankincense,
    for contempt for the world
    mounts over all.

    6a. But then the devil seized their limbs,
    to slay the virgins’ noblest bearings with their bodies.

    6b. And this with piercing cry heard all the elements
    and ‘fore God’s throne declared:

    7a. Ach! The scarlet blood of the innocent Lamb
    to pledge his troth is shed.

    7b. And all the heavens hear this
    and praise the Lamb of God in symphony supreme,
    for the ancient serpent’s throat
    is choked upon these pearls
    compiled from the Word of God.

    Hildegard von Bingen: 11,000 Virgins – Chants for the Feast of St. Ursula – Anonymous 4
    This is an interesting podcast about St. Ursula and the Eleven Thousand Virgins. There are different versions of St. Ursula’s story. This is a thorough historical version.
  • a princess, a path with an old woman leading to a castle.
    I created this graphic as part of a class I took with Kate Farrell on The Heroine’s Journey.

    In classic fairytales, the princess gets the prince and they live happily ever after. We’ve been watching movies and reading books for years on that premise. The boy gets the girl. The girl gets the boy. If relationships were automatic and everything fell into place perfectly, then that storyline would also always happen in real life. But it doesn’t.

    There is a Hero’s Journey and a Heroine’s Journey. I don’t believe the Heroine’s Journey is necessarily a feminist take on the Hero’s Journey, just a different route. To learn more about the differences, please take Kate Farrell‘s class as she can explain it better than I can.

    Oh, the many choices we can have in life!

    Hildegard was a very gifted child who had visions early on. The best place for her in the 12th Century was to be sent to a monastery. She could be best educated there and use her talents for God. St. Hildegard’s path was not to marry a nobleman.

    Why do women of the 21st Century still pursue religious vocations? In this time of so many modern advancements in the home, more equality in the workplace, and the still strong call to motherhood, why choose to be a nun or a sister?

    The Sisters of Social Service say,

    “The charism of the SSS is firmly rooted in the dynamic presence of the Holy Spirit at work within each sister as she engages with the larger community in making decisions that take us into places and situations where we are being led…Many SSS have engaged in the field of social work in various manifestations – from legislative work, community organizing, and one on one social services.”

    Redwoods Monastery, is a small Northern California community of Roman Catholic women monastics founded in 1962 from the Cistercian Monastery of Nazareth in Belgium. They say,

    “Our life is a pattern of prayer, study, meditation, and manual labor that is woven into the fabric of community, centered on Christ as our Lord and brother. We meet Him daily in the Eucharist, in lectio divina, and the “everydayness” of our monastic vocation.”

    There are so many religious orders to choose from that offer different vocations in different locations. There’s nothing antiquated nor boring in that, especially when the Holy Spirit inspires it.

    But back to Vasilisa: As mentioned above, I created the featured graphic as part of a class I took on The Heroine’s Journey. Kate introduced the class to the story of Baba Yaga and Vasilisa the Beautiful. As more of a memoirist than a fiction writer, class assignments led me to compare my personal story with Vasilisa’s.

    My life’s path didn’t end in getting the “prince”, at least not the one in fairytales. Instead, my life has led me to come to know Jesus, the Prince of Peace. I’m a single woman, but I don’t have a religious vocation. I still have too much of a feminist spirit to choose one vocation. Or I’m just too much of a free spirit. (But neither of those makes me right necessarily.) As a writer, I explore different worlds and I want to walk down more paths. But I do so with Jesus and my Catholic faith.

    Women are single for many reasons, and not always permanent ones. Life changes so whatever state in life a woman is in, she is okay. Single doesn’t mean wrong. Single is a moment in time or it’s a lifetime. It just depends on so many variables. In today’s upside down world, how does anyone find anyone anyway?

    I really like this inspirational video about women who are alone with no husband.

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    A Woman Who Walks Alone With No Husband | Billy Graham